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Woman’s Plea: ‘Please don’t take away my husband’s lifeline’, as Beck Theatre faces closure

Twenty-eight years ago Sheila and Ray Kelly went to the Beck Theatre for the first time to see their son, Stuart, as one of the twins in Peter Pan. The couple quickly fell in love with the theatre and began attending much more frequently.

Now, almost three decades later, they are recognised by many and loved by all at the Beck Theatre as the most regular and delightful customers. Since 1996 the couple have made friends and companions at the theatre and enjoyed thousands of great nights. However, flash forward to 2024, and Sheila, who is now Ray’s carer as he has dementia, is begging Hillingdon Council: “Please don’t take away my husband’s lifeline.”

Since the theatre operators Trafalgar Entertainment first announced they were at risk of closure, negotiations have fallen apart several times, with both them and the council blaming each other for the threat of closure. Time continues to run out as we approach January 2025, and with no operator in sight, Sheila and Ray are on edge.

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In September Hillingdon Council said it was ‘seeking new arrangements’ so it is no longer subsidising a ‘privately owned commercial entity’ – The Beck Theatre. However, despite the theatre operators offering to pay rent, talks broke down on numerous occasions between Trafalgar and Hillingdon Council.

Behind closed doors there seemed to be hope that an agreement was close after the two sides secretly resumed talks, however the public spat culminated in a shock statement on Friday, October 11, from the local authority accusing Trafalgar Entertainment of changing their demands at last minute and walking away.

The theatre operators immediately hit back, accusing the council of handling the situation in an ‘unprofessional’ and ‘appalling’ manner. Sheila believes the council are to blame for the ongoing threat and dispute.

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She claimed: “They’ve not handled it well. I mean they haven’t answered any of the emails. Why? Because they are hiding something… they aren’t being honest.”

Since seeing their son perform in his first show in 1996 at the Beck Theatre, Sheila guesses herself and Ray have attended thousands of shows. There is no one type of show they like, Sheila tells the LDRS.

“We like them all, especially the ones with music, and even the ones that aren’t in English. You get to see so much… we love seeing the younger ones too. Sometimes we get asked: ‘Are your grandkids up there?’ and we chuckle and say ‘No’, we just love watching!”

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The married couple are so regular at The Beck that if they were not to attend for a few days consecutively staff would begin to worry. They even have their own reserved seats B15 and B16.

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Sheila and Ray Kelly in the Beck theatre in Hayes London, Britain 24 October 2024. Facundo Arrizabalaga/MyLondon

Sheila said: “Ray will meet anybody, when it comes to making new friends. And when we’re here, he is chatting to everybody.”

When Covid hit, businesses across the country were affected. Unfortunately for Sheila and Ray, The Beck was one of the first to close and last to open. Sheila described the lockdown as a ‘real struggle.’

The couple usually book dozens of shows in advance as they plan their upcoming months, and 2020/2021 was no different. However, due to the flurry of cancellations caused by the Covid closure, the pair were actually paid back hundreds of pounds by the theatre in refunds.

Sheila told the LDRS that the pandemic was when her husband’s health began to decline.

Ray has been attending the theatre with his wife since the 90s. Unfortunately, Ray now suffers from dementia, and Sheila fears the effect the closure of the theatre would have on Ray’s health.

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She said: “It is my husband’s lifeline. It is the reason he wakes up in the morning. Recently… if he isn’t here, he is asleep. It’s as simple as that.

“He’ll have his breakfast, then he is on the settee again asleep until dinner. He has no interest whatsoever in what’s on the telly. He is not a sporty man – so that’s out of the question. It is this he looks forward to. It is a lifeline for him.”

Ray told the LDRS: “It’s homely [The Beck]. It’s like home. You know, I like the music.”

Sheila added: “He might have his eyes closed, but he knows all the music, and he’s tapping his hands along perfectly.”

With the theatre looking more likely to close in January unless a last minute deal can be made to keep the Beck’s doors open, the couple say they there will be ‘nothing else to look forward to’.

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Sheila said: “You know, that’s all Ray looks forward to, The Beck Theatre, and myself sometimes, it can be an escape for me too.”

Sheila is not only Ray’s wife, but also his carer. Having The Beck Theatre so close has allowed her and Ray to maintain many social relationships, and allows for a moment away from life’s stresses. Ray added: “It will be a shame if it closes. A real shame.”

Throughout the process Hillingdon Council has maintained it has no plans to close the Beck Theatre, and claim it is doing all it can to keep it open. On Friday, October 11, the council said: “[We] will continue to seek an alternative provider to run the council-owned facility to secure its future and the continued enrichment of our community.”

However, with shows scheduled for the new year beginning to cancel, and no new operator or plan for the venue once Trafalgar cease operations, many questions remain unanswered, not only for Sheila and Ray, but for the entire Beck Theatre community, the regulars, the youth groups, the employees. As the future of the theatre hangs in the balance, they look ahead to 2025 with a sense of trepidation.

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